There is always a choice

Holiday now!!!!!!!!! I should be happy when holiday is coming, but just don't know why, i feel like wasting time. Every single second is valuable i know. The time is ticking i know as well, but i am doing nothing =(

Just read back a story book, actually can't say it is a story book, there are many small stories inside, which in the end related to the philosophy about life. I like reading that book especially when i feel that i am lost at somewhere else, or i feeling sad. The bookmark bring me to the page which talk bout "There is always a choice in our life". Really meaningful which i would like to share here...

The story start with a girl. There is a girl had been raped by a guy, she felt very suffer, why choose me??! She couldn't stand it anymore, decided to find a psychology doctor. Once she meet the doctor, she was crying, and asked the doctor:" I very suffer, very pity, why am i so unfortunately? i really couldn't forgot the sad incident in my life!"

The doctor told the girl:"Miss, is you yourself who are willing to let the guy rape you."

The girl get shocked after listen what the doctor said. She said:" How could you said that i am the one who willing to let the guy rape?! bullshit!!"

The doctor said:" The guy rape you once, but in your heart, everyday you willing to let him rape you once. One year you willing to let him rape you 365 days."

But, the girl still don't understand.

The doctor explained:" The bad things happened to you is like a sad movie that you watched. You think of it everyday isn't it stupid? What is the different with repeated the bad things happened everyday?

You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself;
you can't change the fact, but you can change your attitude,
you can't control the others, but you can control yourself,
you can't change the past, but you can change your future,
you can't predict tomorrow, but you can treasure what you have it today,
you can't change the weather, but you can change you emotion,
you can't change your lifespan, but you can't make it meaningful,
you can't stop the bad things happen, but you can try your best to make it better.
you can't change your physical appearance, but you can always choose to smile =)

Life is just like a mirror, when you smile to it, it will smile to you;
In contrast, when you cry to it, it will cry to you too.
It is like a cross road, no matter what's happen in the future, there is always a choice for us, we have to smile when facing it =)
It will past for sure!!~

When you reach the destination, look back the path and road which had past, you will realise that, it wasn't that tough. There is no dead end. How you come to a dead end, follow the way go back to the origin, choose the right path beyond, it never lead you to the dead end unless you choose to be standing there.